Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Puppy - I seriously wish I could keep you in my pocket so I'd have you each time I need a great response.

Okay, I will not take his phone calls. I will continue to not discuss OW with him. I will see him on Sunday and I know he'll bring it up. Should I respond as you mentioned (i.e. I thought someone should try to save the M) or just say I will not discuss OW? I have already decided I will NOT tell him how I got the number. I know H will be relentless with asking that. Tough sh!t, I ain't telling him!

GIMA - Okay, I need to detach. Can anyone tell me what I need to do to take the first step towards deatachment? I am all ears. I want to get the he!! out of this depression and on with my life. I really do.