If you use a mediator, I STRONGLY suggest you also use your own lawyer. She has one; you should have one.
In fact, I'd strongly suggest playing it exactly as Coach has recommended. He's been thru this, and not only has he been successful in reconciling with his wife (Greek), but SHE has even posted about how compelling it was when she saw that her husband was going to fight hard to protect himself legally.
She's already gone legal on this; "playing nice" only gets you killed at this point.
