Coach. I majorly respect your opinion. I appreciate it. The way I've been playing it is that I can not stop you and will not fight you. She's talked to a lawyer and wants to go through mediation because we are so "amicable" right now. I have not gotten angry or upset through any of this. That is how I used to be. I would have exploded, pleaded, cried and yelled.

I guess their are two schools of thought. Should I keep playing it cool and if it happens, it happens and we retain friendship with the hopes of rekindling the marriage.

OR

I play the badass route like Coach suggests?