Many of the things your W has told you are very similar to my sitch. Our sitch's are pretty close. You might want to drop by my 1st thread (see below). Early on, it made me feel better to see that my sitch was not unique (I thought for sure it was). There is comfort in knowing that and knowing that very knowledgable people (like puppy, sandi, coach, greek and many others) have seen that sitch many times before.
