Hang in there Frank. This is yet another test and you will pass. Your life is like the movie characters we always discuss - how things got even blacker for them when they thought they already hit bottom. But in the end things work out.
Bankruptcy is not the end of the world. Glad you are seeing an expert. You still have lots of options so go slow. Even our famed automakers survived somehow.
Also good on the C stuff. Glad C saw the anger and reinforced that you ARE a good dad.