Hello GIMA,

My suggestion would be to ignore the book and the fact that your W is reading it. You're not detaching if you are concerned about the book. Do you really know why she's reading this book? Please learn from my mistakes, don't let your emotions succumb to this trap. If your kids find out, let your W handle it.

Save your emotional energy for times when you're running low. You're doing a great job so far. As Sandi told me, only worry about becoming the best man you can be...a man that a W would be crazy to leave!

-LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009