Oh, I was the CLASSIC "Nice Guy." Mr. Conflict-Avoider. Pleaser. Rescuer. Co-dependent to the MAX. I get my co-dependence from my mom's family (she is a recovering alcoholic -- 30 years sober! -- and so are several in her family), and my withdraw/poutiness from my dad.

If you want to go back and read all about it, it's all here -- I used to go by "Chocolateeyes":

Read All About It

I discovered the affair in May 2007, and she ended it in August 2007, if you want to skip/look to the posts in that date range.

Gotta run and take S12 to basketball practice -- ttyl!

Puppy