Thanks givingitmyall. It is a constant learning process as I am learning. : )
25yearsmlc, you are right about the improving part and making things seem better than before. Unfortunately the WAS is so set on seeing things negatively that they see what they want to see.
In fact, my W has also said your changes are going to be good for the next person. It's the ideal of being "in love" which is the hardest hurdle to overcome.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.