Well it was more of the same today - he is still hypersensitive and argumentative.
Has cancelled move in plans, so I will arrange other time off for myself.
Wants to talk to the IC about MC starting, doesn't want me there tommorrow.
Look, there is so much I could say but I am tired of going over it in my mind and I am tired of talking about it to everyone.
In short, H got angry that I couldn't back him up financially on getting a new car for himself - it was a misperception on his part but HE THOUGHT THAT _SO IT MAKES IT TRUE...
H didn't want to argue so he hung up - then called back to say more and I hung up -he has been angry now about me hanging up even though he can hang up everytime he calls me when he doesn't want to argue.
Then he began the old cancelling plans that we had this week, now the weekend and the move and maybe the MC.
I have felt like I am on a roller coaster all week -want to know where my H went and now I am considering my options so that I can go back to being bummed but not on a roller coaster.
What is different, he isn't drinking - he hasn't asked for a D - just more time - he admits we can't solve this ourselves and we need help. He also would like to forgive and forget and move forward -except then nothing would get worked through and we will keep repeating the scenario.
