Yay!!!!! Finally a new thread.

[MrBond]

Good luck with the talk.

Agree to what is being said and have him say it so that the kids understand that it is HIS decision and not yours.

The next time he gets offended about the bill thing, just say 'thanks! here's the rest of them. since these affect your kids I'm glad you're taking initiative to take care of them." Then walk away.

See what he says about that!