This is fun! No need to comment, you know all the arguments from every side! It's tough, Trixi. I'm curious though, looking at your marriage, not from a love standpoint, but from a financial standpoint, does it benefit you to stay married? Do you get health insurance, security for retirement? Would you be giving those up by getting a divorce. I never thought about those things in my 40's, but in my 50's, I see that they are very important.