Pup, the bad guy idea is that the reason she has detached and gave her reason to have A to justify HER actions...Not mine...I am looking at it now that yes I did have a part in this but SHE never told me that is something that bothered her, her communication about our relationship has not been brought up in a long time, The last time I checked a relationship is 2 people, she has a mouth to communicate and yet still to this day she won't communicate anything about our relationship, its like nothing has changed..But can it change, possibly? That is the point about this our whole problem is a communication problem on both sides mine and hers and now that we are both detached how do we do that? Heck even if we decide to D then how is the communication going to be then, the same i am guessing...
My intention is to do the right thing always, I will not carry the burden that my kids will hear 2 stories but I will have evidence to refute it and if the children decide that they have issues with their mother that will be by their own doing, but I will not have them despise me for any wrong doing on my part..
M:35 W:36 M:10 yrs T:11.5 yrs C: B7, G3 ED: 3/09 DB: 3/20/09 Served 12-8-09 Still going through the process
