K4D Rising #3

[PMA_Baby!]

Remember NOT to listen to anything she says and only what she does?
Hopefully you didnt start a R convo about how much u changed. jeesh!

Are u a newby?

Keep the faith brotha.

PMA

[antlers]

Stop talking to her about it.

Regardless of what happens with your marriage, it is you who are responsible for your own happiness. You have to identify ways to achieve that happiness independently of your marriage.

That holds true for all of us!

[25yearsmlc]

Now and then you have to be grateful for the clarity the WAS tries to give, even though their words only mean so much.
You know what you have to keep doing, which is GAL and working on the PMA.
j-

[K4D]

I made the dumb mistake of asking her if she is still keeping the door open for a possibly future reconciliation like she had said before. She said no. I said is there anything I can do to change that. She said just leave her alone. I said ok, I will.

Kevin

[antlers]

You absolutely have to stop any desperate, demeaning behavior. It gives your power away and erodes the relationship further.

[FaithfulH]

I made the dumb mistake of asking her if she is still keeping the door open for a possibly future reconciliation like she had said before. She said no. I said is there anything I can do to change that. She said just leave her alone. I said ok, I will.

Kevin

Kevin,

What happened to trusting God? We are ALL subject to our own human weaknesses....but, I don't understand why you keep repeating this behaviour? It is so self-destructive. It almost appears that you WANT her to file again. I know that isn't true but it is the only way I can begin to understand this behaviour. I'm looking forward to seeing you tomorrow. We can catch up then.

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

FH!!!

I miss you!

Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~
SMW

[FaithfulH]

(((SMW))),

I miss you too!!! Sorry for the hijack K4D but I had to give my dear friend a hug!

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

Sorry, too, Kevin--

You could always come visit my thread, FH (hint hint)

Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~
SMW

[FaithfulH]

SMW,

I'm trying to catch up on your thread right now! I'm all the way up to July 4th!