d-day coming soon - help !

[misshim]

My L called me this a.m. she wants to file the final paperwork, findings of fact, law, conclusion of Divorce (I think it's called). She approached my H at court to do it because it can be very involved and confusing. H would have to do it because he filed but she offered to get it done. H was supposed to call L the other day give the go-ahead or he would have to do on his own.

I asked L to call him this coming Monday and leave a message because I really didn't want to discuss this with him. I figured I shouldn't because it's a R discussion.

Foolish me, I did ask her if we could get this D postponed somehow. No luck, it would have to be up to my H to postpone now. Oh well, I tried.

I hangup from L and H texts me wanting to see how my day was going and maybe if it works out would I like to go out for dinner with him saturday night! Oh I was so happy and I texted back -- sounds like a great idea, let me know later what time. He texted ok, have a good day and I'll talk more when I drop off our D tonight.

I'm really excited but have to remain calm. My excitement slowed when my L called back after lunch today. L had time to call H today to leave a message and he actually answered his phone !! He agreed with my L and wanted L to do the final paperwork, he will be sending L money to finish it.

L called me right back and said that L talked to H. I'm glad that he agreed to let L do paperwork. Now I'm bummed, I'll bet he will cancel dinner plans for saturday night.

Don't get me wrong, I could care less about the eating. I just was looking forward to being alone with him.

I'll be seeing him tonight when he drops off D4. I'm not saying a word about the L. I know he won't bring it up either.


Have a great day everyone !! Grace, I hope your doing ok, you've been kind of quiet lately !!