All in all, if I have to be "wrong" about my M, then I'd rather regret hanging in too long in the m, than leaving it too early. I think we're all on that same page as far as what we worry about.
And only the LBSer can decide if and when they have had enough. Even now, as my H and I work on things, I know in the back of my mind that if the time for trouble comes again, God forbid, I'll know if it's over and that I'll be fine. It won't take as long for me to know b/c I learned a lot with DBing. What to do, and what not to do. And that I'll be alright.
Don't let anyone take away your right to hope for a miracle. If it comes, great. IF not, you'll know, you'll act, and you'll survive.
((( j )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016