Its ok to feel like you have made backwards progress. We all have done this, and occasionally still do. I think that you need to be careful about trying to read your W's mind. You cant know what shes thinking, or why shes doing things, so dont waste your enrgy trying. If you think that you had a breakthrough, great, let it rest now. It is never too late to start DBing. You need to focus on what you are thinking and doing and make them be the best thoughts and actions they can be.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
