I hate how it has now come to my W asking me if I care if she does things, when it really doesn't matter if I care or not
Then that's how you should answer her when she asks. "Does it really matter if I care of not?" If she says "yes", then ask, "Would it change anything if I cared or not?" Don't allow her to put the monkey on your back. Keep tossing that ball right back to her. Think ahead of anything that might go wrong and be prepared with an answer.
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Why is it that reading other people's sitch's, it seems easy to give some advice, but on our own similar problems we are so unsure of what to do? random thoughts by ShockedOne
Ain't it the truth!! I think we all fall into that catergory but there's just a few of us that will admit it.......
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
