well it's about 9 days after dad passed...I ma doing ok..my older and younger sisters are wrecks..my mom seems good..my younger brother seems to be doing ok and went ahead and went on his 10th wedding anniversary trip to Vegas...

a side note about dad's wake...of course Michele was there to support me....and Kim asked me if it was ok if she came to pay her respects and bring Caleigh and of course I said it was fine..so she came..she saw Michele and also saw Caleigh interact with Michele...very little convo between Kim and I other than me thanking her for coming...I did make a couple of calls to her to talk about some upcvoming visitation swaps and she did tell me if I needed to talk she was there to listen which I found quite odd...

I apprecaited the offer but think I'll pass...she surely did not want to listen or talk last year..and I see no point in going down that road again...I've got Michele and family/friends to talk to...

thanks to all who inquired, sent texts or emails..

love ya, mean it