Your friends S(FWH) & J(FBW) here. When FWH saw your post about her being so nice to you, he said "I wonder what she wants". Now you know. She may be confused, but she is still too deep in the fog and only thinking of herself and getting her next "fix". You have to think of her as a drug addict right now. I know you want to see signs of hope, but I think it may be too early for that. I know she will eventually come to her senses, but she is going to need some serious reality checks before that happens.
FWH was nice to me as long as I was not interfering in his little fantasy or if he wanted something. BUT, I would get the anger, threats, guilt. etc if I didn't cooperate. It's all about control.
