desperate...

[Ready2Change]

What kind of relationship do you want with your D? I fought for joint custody. It was the best decision I made.

What type of relationship do you want with W? I set my W free at her request. We are divorced. I want her to be happy. I am very patient with her. I am kind to her. I forgive her for all I feel she has done wrong to me and my kids.

I change my thoughts, words and behavior and I change the relationship. I took the high road.

Right now you are a wreck. It is OK to be wreck. We have the power to create our own dream. Change your beliefs and you change your dream.


So you want "the magic pill"? Work on becoming the best YOU that you can be. The more I stay "Present", the better I feel. If I start thinking of the past, or fearing the future, guess what happens.....

What makes you happy? Enjoying every minute of every day makes me happy. I wake up and really focus on and enjoy my first few breaths of the day. I stretch and enjoy the way that feels. My sheets feel great. The sunshine is great. The warm water in the shower feels amazing every morning. I sing with the radio for 30 minutes on my commute to work. I enjoy looking at and speaking with everyone I interact with during the day.....

When I got "the bomb", I am glad I took the great opportunity for personal growth. I have nurtured many new relationships. My beliefs are completely different than they were a year ago. I am continually evaluating my beliefs and changing them. Michelle calls this "BEGINNERS MIND".

What you believe is what you project out into the world and it become truth for you.

What do you see when you look in the mirror? Do you see a good looking happy guy? That is what I see when I look in the mirror.

My spouse had many great qualities that I did not posses. I do now. She was my greatest role model.

No intentions, no expectations.