Wow Ali! Things are going so well for you! I think you just need to keep following that keen intuition of yours. You are getting answers, and a lot sooner than many who have reconciled...I know I have read of some where it was a year before the bf/h shared as much as yours has! So I guess I would say not to push for too much too soon but hey if it were me I would have a million questions, too!
Sounds like you are doing so well. Very happy for you.