I mean really, from what I know, she doesn't actually click with S12 and besides, he's not her son.
Exactly right, Purple. She doesn't click with S12 at all - and, no, he's not her son.
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I think she is trying to get you to see from her point of view that it will be really hard to let A spend the night with you.
I don't know...maybe....she still insists that S2 can't spend nights with me because she's having trouble weening him...he still sleeps with her, and nurses at night...
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What if you don't actually commit to S spending time with her, but don't flat out say no?
That's more or less what I'm doing...i just don't feel like engaging in an unnecessary conversation with her.
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How much time does S spend with his own mum and how often?
He lives with his mom during the school year - and spends all holidays with me. At the end of this summer he will be moving east for a year - and then he will be in Europe for a year. During that time apart - I plan to do a lot of rebuilding in my life...and plan on seeing him as often as possible while we're living apart. The plan is for him to come back and live with me through high school - until he goes to college. So after this summer, the next couple years will be rough...but I'm sure he'll get a lot out of it - and I hope to get my life back in order so that things are more comfortable by the time he's with me again.
