Your words are truly inspirational. Did you save your marriage with this philosophy...I'm not familiar with your story? I also still wear my wedding ring although my W does not. It's my reminder that it's not over yet.
Thanks, LFH
That was my philosophy and yes it worked for me. My marriage was saved because I took positive action on my part and my wife took positive action for herself. You can be a great DBer or a lousy one but your marriage will eventually take two committed partners to heal. You don't control your wife. You control your actions, feelings and thoughts. The Stockdale Paradox helped me cope. Make your mind up to thrive and not let this take you down regardless of the outcome. You can handle it. Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
