Thanks again for your thoughts. This is all new to me too. So I assume your wife has not yet agreed to the program? Do you sense she is having a change of heart (before wanting D and now maybe not?)
How are you coping with it all? I find this is the only thing I can think about these days, and sometimes wake up in a panic like "what can I do?" "who can talk to him for me?" but for the most part i lay low and dont initiate contact unless he does.
