I don't think she knows how much it costs. If she did, she might have second thoughts, so since we have no money anyway, ...
The cost is actually reasonable. It covers 2 nights in a hotel, the conference room, meals for the weekend, and the costs of the 6 follow up sessions. You are not paying for the speakers, sponsors, etc as they are all volunteers.
That's part of the point I was making - Mrs. Thinker has often in the past requested weekend outings that would cost more (2 nights in a hotel, meals, transportation, etc).
Note that on top of the $400 (Which may vary by location), they also ask for a voluntary (sealed envelope) donation to support the overall Retro program.
I might consider figuring out between you and your W how to pay the $400 yourselves. It is non-refundable, and once your W has paid the money herself (or out of your joint funds), she is going to more committed to going and less likely to bail out at the last minute.
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This text message is the first positive thing W has said in a long, long time.
Congratulations. Follow up quickly and get it scheduled.
Last edited by Thinker; 07/10/0903:41 PM.
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