Running out of gas

[Jimbo]

That was a truly crappy way for her to do that, MW. You have every right to be pissed.

She has made her choice to pursue the D. I'm not happy about her choice either, but, believe it or not, it IS part of the process for some MLCers. Looks like both our Ws fall into that category. All you can do now is resign yourself to this, and accept her decision.

Phoenix is absolutely right about this not having to necessarily be over forever. Just because you MAY happen to D does NOT mean everything is lost. Many people who have walked down this exact path have had reconciliations later down the line and gotten remarried again. The M may be dead, but the love you shared together is still in her subconscious.

You are only done if you choose to be.