Thanks WDID. But I might have to disagree with you based on the last few days concerning the stress at work.

I noticed about Wed that W started getting a little more distant with me. Last night it was very apparent.

I got home from work and W shortly after. We sat out on the deck talking about her day (no asking how my day was). She was polite and talked, but was somewhat distant. I asked her a number of times the last few days how work was going and she said good, no problems, etc.

To back up some, Wed night, W went up to the bedroom to watch t.v. and never came back down. When I went up for bed she was laying there kind of staring out into space.

Last night I had a hair cut and W was still ok, but somewhat distant when I left, but when I got home she was ANGRY. Angry at the puppy, angry at S17 for not picking up his room, angry at pretty much everything that came up. Now I know she could have just been having a bad day, but I don't think so based on our earlier conversation. Anyway, she was pissed that the puppy kept climbing on her while she was trying to read/watch t.v. I moved over to sit next to her so the pup couldn't climb on her and she snapped "IT'S NOT GOING TO WORK". I calmly replied "if it doesn't, I'll move". But it worked. BUT, W was doing everything she could to move as far away from me as she could. At 9:00 she said "I'm going upstairs to watch t.v.". Never came back down.

I went up to bed and she was half asleep, half laying there.

The last couple days, no IM's or emails etc from her.

You might be right in that it's stress from work, but it seems pretty likely to me that maybe that old building was giving her some kind of charge and now that's been taken away there's some WD going on. Heck, I don't know, maybe when she moved she put the affair gift glass away and it's not where she's getting a charge from that. Who knows?

Ok, I know, I know. Can't read anything into this stuff. Maybe it's just hormonal. But the timing of it all is pretty strange.

Just kind of interesting.....


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.