Start of the end..

[iwantittowork]

No, that's not what I would be doing. I am supporting her financially now, while living at home. We discussed the D, and if/when I decide to move on, I am planning on moving to just giving her the financial support I am required by our agreement, and transfer the house stuff to her.

I would like to get agreement on selling our home, then truly she will be responsible for moving out, and dealing with her own finances.

Right now, with me dealing with everything financially, and family, car and house maintenance, etc, I just feel I am enabling her detachment from the family, she truly has nothing to worry about from that, other than when to schedule her next hair cut, waxing, gym class, etc..