the things is - i cant ignore the bills or take them on - i am a stay at home mom!!!
believe me, i have ignored as much as possible, let things sit on the back burner, but not my cable bill or electric bill or income taxes!
up until now, everything has been paid for. minus the mortgage over the last year, my bills are covered by him. so now, when he is slipping because he is unemployed, i am on him because its not ok since i see his car has not been reposessed, meaning he is paying it.
i leave the bills out, mentioned them in a nonthreatening way. he didnt pay them this week so i did make the payments, photocopied the bills and my check from my personal funds, documented it and sent it to my attorney for my file.
i may appear as a doormat in terms of my love for him, may appear to be part of the love triangle, may be fighting for him that way, but i am in no way stupid or going to keep my head in the sand in terms of finances.
whats funny is that i dont think he has any clue how i have documented over the past 18 months, no clue that have organized and stored all of the information, in a timeline with receipts!
hey, i cant let go just yet but if push comes to shove, i will be armed to protect myself!
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
