Last night we both left work early and met for beer and talking near her work. We talked at first about stuff related to separation. She has settled down from the early tension filled stuff, so things are OK on that front. We talked about when to list the house, dealing with moving out, etc. It was civil and fine. Of course, as we talked, her continuing to speak of the years that went into her decision, the hurt she feels, the lack of trust, etc. I listened and validated. I made my point of understanding that but I have reached a point of change and I feel the marriage could be healed and that I don't think divorce will heal or fix her pain. But I said space and time will be good for both of us so separation is probably good, as we both have tough decisions ahead.
We went out to eat with S after and had a good time. Uneventful rest of night. This AM she got dressed and ready for work and I see she has on what I have told her before is my favorite jeans and casual blouse, as well as a small gift I got her a while back. Crazy times.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
