I believe the word your looking for is comfortable Ian.
I am comfortable my friend. Not the least bit homophobic. I like women....that will never change and thats why I am comfortable.
Yourself and another (no need to mention any names, you just did that, thank you) should really ask, what is it that you fear? Is it the possibilty of being swung in the other direction?
I'll leave that for you two cupcakes to ponder.....
