Orangedog, sorry you have so much anger about your sitch - we are all here b/c it is tough work that we have to do.
(((V)))
It's complicated and everyone gets hurt in the process. Heck, you are all related - have a history - and despite the R breakdown, everyone is going to suffer some. Do your best. It takes two to resolve the conflict and grow the R, if not, then this is what happens.
Stay focused on making the "best decisions" about the uncoupling and co-parenting and "pray" it all works out - seriously!
