I mean really, from what I know, she doesn't actually click with S12 and besides, he's not her son.

I think she is trying to get you to see from her point of view that it will be really hard to let A spend the night with you.

What if you don't actually commit to S spending time with her, but don't flat out say no?

How much time does S spend with his own mum and how often?

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