Oh Lordy. this sounds like my h only he doesn't want a D. He just doesn't want to live with me.
The phrase 'cake eating' springs to mind.
What about if you said to him. "sure we can divorce and then date again, but it won't be an exclusive relationship and I'll be dating others. How do you feel about that, h?"
** Purple
As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe