OH...how do you know if things are 'working'?


You set goals.

You change your behaviors to meet those goals.

If you meet them it's working, if not, modify, and watch closely.

Sounds simple...it is. But it doesn't FEEL that way to begin with.


It often takes a bit to set goals:....honey...and let's not even worry about that right now.


Here's your INITIAL GOAL..... to stop her rejection.

What does that look like? How will you know?

How do you know she's rejecting you now?

What is SHE saying, what is SHE doing? (thigns like 'leave me alone' or 'don't call me' or.... is she just giving you cold body language?.....be specific.)


When you DON'T get that reaction....you're making progress.


That is NOT NORMAL DB. We usually state goals positively.

We just won't worry about that right now.


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001