D11 said she didn't know what to tell people that were asking so I told her the truth. If it comes back to W that W is found out lying, thats W's problem. I'm not going to lie to my kids. As it is, I am already covering up a lot of what W has done because the kids have no business knowing it. But if D11 wants to know if we are D'd or not, I will answer her with the truth.
Gee, I hope your w won't just take care of things once and for all and make it all official so that you'll be the one who's lying then...come on, your w feels the divorce is an expensive formality and you HAD to correct this...b/c why?? You want to be factually accurate? Fine, she'll fix that. Or you want to be "right"? We know the answer. And now that you are technically, "right", so what?
If W gets mad about her lie being found out, maybe she shouldn't be telling lies to people.
Well she'll take care of that by making it a reality - so you won't have to worry anymore about that issue...sheesh...way to force her hand.
I think I am just getting to the point where I don't care what W thinks anymore. She obviously doesn't care about me.
God I wish you didn't care what she thinks or says...I sooo wish... Kevin
Kevin, let this silly thing go. Stop correcting your w to your d and making your w wrong. It's obvious to all of us. Wish you could see this.
Sure, you are separated and she wants a divorce and has not had it finalized...But you didn't tell that to your d. Nope. You told her what you like to think is true. As if your w has let the div drop or something. But by pointing this out, you have likely eliminated it as ever being true. Do you see this? j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
