I think you're right. She seemed to have gotten depressed especially after our second D was born, so I was thinking it might even have been post-partum depression. I told her that point blank last week when she started going off on me threatening to get a L.
She didn't say anything after that, but later that day, I gave her a big hug and she relaxed quite a bit. I think she really believes she can try solving everything herself in her head. Maybe I'll get some anti-depressents and crush them in her food. LOL.
What set her off about the L was that she had lunch with a guy friend whom she has like since Kindergarten last week. I asked her how was lunch, where did they go, what did she eat, etc. The normal stuff you would ask any one and she accused me of "grilling" her. I purposely worded everything to be sure that they wouldn't be perceived as grilling, so I was taken aback by her comment. In fact, she snapped it at me, then declared that I should get it by now that we are over, etc.
I admit that I was irked because I still saw her reaction as cheating and which is what she was doing earlier.
An ultimatum wouldn't work right now since she basically is ready to leave if I push to much.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
