Whenever she mentions that she wants to be there just for the kids, etc. just shrug and say "that's up to you. I can't make you love me after all". And go on your own merry way. Go out and live. Hang out with friends. Don't tell her where you're going, stuff like that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.