Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Ashlee, as morally right as your position is, you need to resign yourself right now to the fact that you're NOT going to have everyone on your side. If you have even SOME of his family on your side, you're ahead of the game. I know people that get ostracized by EVERYBODY, and yet they STILL do the right thing, for themselves and for their kids. You sound like you have some support, which is gravy.


As usual Puppy, you hit the nail on the head. I do realize I won't have everyone's support. I knew this SIL would protect and defend H no matter what. It just shocked me that she went to my S.

Tell you what, I am getting sick and tired of all this crying. You'd think I wouldn't have any tears left after the past week. The thing that makes me the saddest is the man I've turned to for the past 17 years, who has been my best friend, is no where to be found. He has no compassion for me and has no idea of the torment inside of me. I miss him. I miss us. This pain is unbearable at times.


Me: 39 H: 39
S: 15
M: 18 years
Bomb: 6/3/09
H moved out: 10/15/09
H moved back:5/30/10