Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Thanks for the encouragement. H also spoke today about leaving. I told him I was not leaving the house. H said he'll leave. I said that is fine. I said he still has financial responsibilities as everything is in both of our names. H acknowledged that fact.

I feel like I am between a rock and a hard place with some family members on his side of the family. S said his aunt pulled him aside to talk about his father and I. When S mentioned his father was talking to OW, the aunt acknowledged it was wrong but also seemed to defend H. The aunt also told S that I hate her. I am fuming, my S is 14 and she does not need to be talking to my S about how she thinks I feel. She is not close to my S, hadn't seen him in a couple of years. I want to call her, basically to tell her not to speak with my S about my M or about my feelings towards her (actually to not speak to my S period). I'm afraid this may not be the right thing to do...the mama bear in me is very protective of my S. Any thoughts?