That is a tough one. Think of it this way. If you have friends/family that generally like to work on things.. and I mean anything.. that career, marriage, child raising, their fitness levels, and own well being, etc. require hard work to keep up sometimes.. vs friends/family that like to have everything in life handed to them on a silver platter.. oh and if they like to throw the silver platter away for a "newer improved" silver platter avoid these types of people. Reach out to the ones that can appreciate hard work and a struggle from time to time.. have you gone for personal counseling btw?
