Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Well, I set the boundaries tonight and he's gone. The evening was going fairly well, we got take out and a movie. Now and then H would make comments about getting a phone call (from OW), which i ignored. While watching the movie, H received a text and started to write back. I told H if it was OW, he needed to not answer it in my presence. H obviously thought I was kidding. A few minutes later H said he would be receiving a phone call. I told H he will not take the phone call in our house or when he was with me as it is disrespectful to me and our M. H asked if I was serious. I said I was. A few minutes later H gets up, indicates he is leaving and drove off.

I don't know if I handled the sitch correctly but I am tired of the phone calls and text messages in front of me.