Well a lot going on in my life.Well finally got my screen name changed.Thats how I'm feeling right now.Eye of the tiger ,Rock,eye of the tiger.To start things off I told my w that going thru divorce would be financially taxing for both of us.I told her lets just live apart and go on with our own lives.I have no interest in trying for the marriage while she is going out with om.I know in my heart that she is probably in mlc.So there is really nothing I can say right now anyway.She said she'll think about not doing the divorce.The other thing I have been tossing around in my head are my finances.I live in a very large house.I built it a few years ago.It was our dream house.Well I have a big mortgage to go with it.It is 3 stories.2 people could live here and probably never see each other.I was thinking about dividing up a section and seeing if my w wants to rent.I know it sounds like a crazy idea but there would be ground rules in effect.Like on her days the kids would not be allowed in my half,if she wanted to use the yard it would be on days I'm working,etc.I know this would help me out with bills and free her up a little bit.Shes paying a lot now renting an apartment.I wouldn't want to rent it to a stranger.At least I know she would pay me every month and not destroy the place.Any feedback here would be appreciated.