I do not believe that trust can be rebuilt in these sithces. Not really. You have seen what the WAW is capable of and things are never going to be the same. Innocence lost, and all that.
The hate she displays towards me is still shocking in its intensity, although she is using custody as a weapon primarily through being difficult and less overtly since February/March.
D1 was doing well this morning. She was looking out the window when I drove up to the daycare, and she started grinning when I walked past. She was still looking for me out the window when I came up behind her to surprise her.
She got me to hold her and rested her head on my shoulder for a bit. I had to leave twice, the first time I came back because she started crying and chasing me out the door. The second time I slipped out after she got interested in a toy.
No word from my attorney in response to my email. Likewise - no continuance has been filed.
Trial: 4:00:16:30
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
Do you think the hate is b/c she feels like you are an obstacle from her having the perfect life? It's all your fault she's not 100% happy. I think after the D, she'll probably realize life still has all the problems, etc, and I don't think it's going to be perfect in any shape or form. Maybe it will help her look at herself? Or maybe not.
I love hearing about your D1. She sounds adorable!!!! Karen
Do you think the hate is b/c she feels like you are an obstacle from her having the perfect life? It's all your fault she's not 100% happy. I think after the D, she'll probably realize life still has all the problems, etc, and I don't think it's going to be perfect in any shape or form. Maybe it will help her look at herself? Or maybe not.
I love hearing about your D1. She sounds adorable!!!! Karen
I think BPD or not she isn't going to find her answers in divorce. She has never been very good at self-reflection.
Yeah she is adorable.
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
I know, I just picture her laying her head down on his shoulder in the morning, and it makes me feel good.
I MISS MY "LITTLE" GIRLS BEING LITTLE!!! (20 and 22 now )
I actually snapped a really good picture of her doing it on my cell phone this morning.
Still no word on continuance/attorney stuff.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
I know, I just picture her laying her head down on his shoulder in the morning, and it makes me feel good.
I MISS MY "LITTLE" GIRLS BEING LITTLE!!! (20 and 22 now )
I actually snapped a really good picture of her doing it on my cell phone this morning.
Here, now I'll make everyone cry. I played this at an Indian Princess chapel service once, and had every dad in there all tearing up.
Turn Around Harry Belafonte (also done by Dicky Smothers, and others)
Where are you going my little one, little one Where are you going my baby my own Turn around and you're two, turn around and you're four Turn around and you're a young girl going out of the door Turn around (turn around) Turn around (turn around) Turn around and you're a young girl goin' out of the door
Where are you going my little one, little one Dirndls and petticoats, where have you gone Turn around and you're tiny, turn around and you're grown Turn around and you're a young wife with babes of your own
Turn around and you're a young Turn around and you're a young wife with babes of your own
Where are you going my little one, little one Where are you going my baby my own Turn around and you're two, turn around and you're four Turn around and you're a young girl going out of my door
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