Nicely said Gypsy. It takes a fair bit of time and a lot of hurt to get here but it seems we all do eventually.
For me this does not mean the end of Dbing. For me I have learnt through Dbing that it is more about helping myself through this hell, it is about being able to appropriately angry and to have some better understanding of the WAS. I learnt so much about what not to do in my next relationship, I learnt how to have more respect for myself.
I also have learnt that my next relationship may indeed be with XH and if it is, then it will be here that I come to for guidance to get through the rebuilding process.
