If MLC is about resolving something in childhood or a skipped life transitional period, could this not just be an excuse? Or the way they "set you up to be" during the withdrawal stage? Could you not have been the perfect wife, but at some point, the ugly "crisis" child would have reared up it's head to assert itself no matter how strong the M?
I believe, yes. But the other side to that is this: eventually, it will resolve itself. You just have to wait it out. When you get to the other side of this, he'll one day thank you for being the strong one and holding the family together.
I think that the trigger is mostly set in motion at a younger age, and they HAVE to do this...However, there are things that you did to contribute to it.
Believe nothing that you hear is great, but there has to be some creedence placed on the complaints that are directed at you......
If you stand, don't stand still ( nickel Trapt )....
It is not an excuse to walk by the mirror, you have to stop and look into it...
I believe that they all come back eventually.....who and where we are at that time will greatly affect the outcome....
Are you willing to take that chance ?
I'm not...
The work needs to be done regardless....
You have the strength, and support from all of us L ....
It can be done, and you can be the one to do it.
God has placed this in your lap for a reason, cause YOU can handle it....
