If MLC is about resolving something in childhood or a skipped life transitional period, could this not just be an excuse? Or the way they "set you up to be" during the withdrawal stage? Could you not have been the perfect wife, but at some point, the ugly "crisis" child would have reared up it's head to assert itself no matter how strong the M?
I believe, yes. But the other side to that is this: eventually, it will resolve itself. You just have to wait it out. When you get to the other side of this, he'll one day thank you for being the strong one and holding the family together.
