So ... after basically 3 months of silence I get a text from the W today.

W: Are you in town today?
I wait awhile, call back. No answer. I wait some more.
W: I lost my voice, are you home?
M: In and out, what's up?
W: I just want to talk about some things. [really? that may be hard to do with no voice]

She wants to meet at a coffee shop. I decline. We text back and forth ...

We're scheduled to meet at a park downtown at 6 tonight.

I am FULL of trepidation. I am trying to not have any expectations for this meeting. It has been months since we've talked. It could be good. It could be bad.

My gameplan: I'm gonna look good. Be calm. Validate my butt off. NOT talk about me. Listen. Take control of what I'm gonna do next.

I'll be honest. I'm scared. ANY additional immediate advice would appreciated.

MW