It's always a gradual testing of the waters where they are ready to bolt at any time. Once they cross that line, it's very difficult to get over it again the other way. Alot of personal talk and reflection on both parties.
I don't disagree with you. Here's the issue/question: I feel W and I are stuck (no pun intended) in limboland. Has been NO R talk since the bomb dropped. I am VERY careful not to do anything to pursue W. So, how does one discuss the R without it being pursuit? I would welcome this discussion from my W, but do not think I should be the one to initiate it. Thoughts?