If you read all of the people who have been Piecing or busted their D, you'll see that it's never a matter of "wow! what a great LBS I have." and everything's all happily ever after.
It's always a gradual testing of the waters where they are ready to bolt at any time. Once they cross that line, it's very difficult to get over it again the other way. Alot of personal talk and reflection on both parties.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.